Senin, 04 Februari 2013

Different for filling each other




This photo is a picture that I took when I was on vacation in Borobudur temple. According to my friends, this is a good place to take pictures with tourists abroad. Incidentally, at that time there were a lot of tourists who come to Borobudur temple. I used the opportunity to get acquainted with the tourists and taking photos with them. I think the picture is inadequate to describe the differences; the difference is from skin color and language used for communication. Physically, it's very easy to know the difference. I think some factors that made it different are the genetic factors and lifestyle of each individual. I think the difference is not an obstacle for us to have friends. I remember the motto of Indonesia is Bhinneka Tunggal Ika, that is different, but still one also. That is, even though we come from different areas with differences of custom, religion, ethnic, and habit, but we are one entity. Physical difference is not a guideline for us to have friends. Never start viewing people from the outside, look at their heart. Some people say, different is beautiful, but do not make a difference become triggers for the split.

I once had a friend who has a black color. He was never serious, playful and irritability. I once joked with him about the difference of our skin color. I told him that his skin is darker than my skin. Apparently he was not offended, and just laughed, but eventually he got angry with me. I was surprised because he usually does not get angry and take it seriously. Finally I asked him apologize for joke that I made. After I did it, he was not angry with me. He just wanted to joke me back. I think that I and my friend are not different because of our skin color, but I feel that the difference between us because the difference in attitude. If he was never serious, I felt seriously. Although we have differences, I did not hate my friend. Indeed, I am grateful to him, because of his a playful attitude, I feel comforted when I'm sad. We do not have to look for similarities in friends, but we can make the difference becomes a beauty in our relationship.

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